"I Am Fragrant" is a work created by Yang Benfen that deeply reveals the situation of women in Chinese-style marriages. Through the author's review of her sixty-year marriage journey at the age of eighty, she delicately depicts the lives of those women who are overlooked by the world. The book is full of unknown pain and confusion, which are experiences shared by countless women. The work is not only a narrative of personal marriage stories, but also a profound reflection on the fate of women, calling for more attention and understanding of women who silently give and bear the pressure in marriage.
The Arrangement of Fate#
In the book, Yang Benfen describes in detail her childhood, schooling, and growth experience, as well as the choice and initial adjustment of her marriage. Her marriage was not based on love, but the arrangement of fate. Such marriages were not uncommon in that era, and women were often forced to accept the arrangements of family and society, lacking the right to choose independently. Through delicate strokes, the author portrays her confusion and helplessness in the early stages of marriage.
The Experience of Marriage#
Married life is not always smooth sailing. Yang Benfen recounts in the book the responsibilities of family, communication and challenges in marriage, as well as the influence of the outside world on her. Her husband is indifferent and taciturn, and the heavy burden of family responsibilities falls almost entirely on her shoulders. She not only takes care of the children but also deals with various conflicts and contradictions within the family. Despite this, she remains steadfast in the family, silently giving and demonstrating the endurance and resilience of women in marriage.
Reflections Under the Setting Sun#
With the passage of time, Yang Benfen entered her old age. In the book, she explores the changes in old age, the later years of marriage, and the summary of life. She reviews her life, reflecting on the past and looking forward to the future. Through her own story, she hopes to arouse society's attention to the injustice and oppression suffered by women in marriage, and calls for more understanding and support.
Social Background and Women's Fate#
"I Am Fragrant" is not only a personal memoir but also a work of social significance. The social background reflected in the book has a profound impact on the fate of women. Through her own experiences, Yang Benfen reveals the situation of women in marriage in different eras. Her story is not only her personal experience but also the shared fate of countless women.
Conclusion#
"I Am Fragrant" calls for social attention to the situation of women in marriage and provides them with more understanding and support through true stories and delicate descriptions. Yang Benfen's book reflects a profound reflection on the injustice and oppression suffered by women in marriage. Her story evokes sadness and anger, but also demonstrates the resilience and strength of women. This book is not only a personal memoir but also a work of social significance, worthy of careful appreciation by every reader.